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A story that will completely change the way you see relationships

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I am really annoyed about something today. I was talking to a friend of mine recently who has been in a relationship for 6 years and her parents have really been pressuring her to figure out when they are going to get married. Her dad even sent an email to her boyfriend asking what his…

why trying to look perfect is blocking you in love

Grandparents

WOW! After coming off that trip to Paris, I am now in Tampa at my In-Laws, visiting Hemal’s grandparents who are here from India. They are both in their 90’s. We call them Ba (grandmother) and Dada (grandfather) it is pretty amazing to see them together. They have been married for 70 years. I am…

the real reason you’re jealous of her wedding

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I’m currently spending time in one of my favorite places in the world – Paris! I’m disconnecting from my phone, from email, and spending time with one of my best friends for her 35th birthday. Here is a picture of me and all my bags, ready to go! But even though I’m an 8 hour…

When is it safe to call him?

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This past weekend, my friend and thought-leader extraordinaire Meggan Watterson hosted her annual REVEAL event. I was super honored that she invited me to be a part of the day because I got to speak and share my story in a totally new way. It pushed me to let myself get even more vulnerable, and…

how to stop dreading another birthday alone

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I want to let you in on something – I friggin’ LOVE celebrating my birthday. Every year, no matter what, I take the time out to gather my friends and family together and just have FUN and take in all the love. A couple of birthdays ago, I invited all of my friends for brunch…

how to stop feeling rejected

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Have you ever revealed something vulnerable to a man and he then pulled away or disappeared? I’m going to let you in on exactly what you can do to change that. Last weekend, I had a ridiculously amazing experience with the women in my Love Mastery program. Our nine months together is coming to a…

Want to text him but afraid you’ll look needy? Here’s what to do.

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I remember when Hemal (my husband) broke up with me before we were married. It was after 4 years of being together, and thinking he was going to propose and instead he told me he wasn’t happy and he needed space. I freaking hated that word SPACE. Like what does that even mean? I remember…

Do you believe men change and will eventually leave you?

This week I was home in Ohio. This pic is right before I was about to leave my home to fly back to NYC. Both my parents are cooking an Indian meal for me…mmm…mmm good. One of my clients, Brianna, was talking to me recently about how she hasn’t been out on a ton of…

Part 2: Feeling a connection with a man that isn’t pursuing you?

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Holy crap we had so many people write in and say that last week’s post really resonated with them.   One woman wrote: I’ve been really struggling lately with letting go of a past love interest. This man crosses my mind pretty much every day…when I shouldn’t care at all because our involvement was very…

feeling a connection with a man that isn’t pursuing you? here’s why

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Have you ever felt a connection with a man that felt good and REAL, like there was definitely something between the two of you that you knew you had to explore further? The first couple of dates were magical and the more time you spent with him the feeling of connection grows. Internally you may…