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Are you mothering men?

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Hemal and I just got back from our trip to Ireland for my friend Meeli’s wedding. One of my favorite things in the world are rainbows, and in Ireland we saw those rare full-blown arched rainbows. In fact at one point there were double rainbows. Here is a picture of one of them. It was…

my ideal man list backfired (an oldie but goldie!)


I have been in Spain and Ireland for the last week to get some R&R with Hemal and to celebrate my friend Meeli’s wedding. A few our friends from NYC flew over and it has been so much fun to have the crew in Europe! Since we have been away absorbing the Barcelona nights and…

How to weed out the wrong men online or in person (Throwback Saturday!)


Today, we’re back to our regular scheduled programming with great content for you and a Throwback Saturday post. Thank you to all of the amazing women who have enrolled in Soul Level Love and who took the time to watch the free video series. I appreciate each and every one of you. This post answered…

a script for how to tell a man that you like him


This week is a holy week for me. I am Jain and for those of you that are new to me, the Jain dharma is more of a philosophy than a religion. It is a way of life. The biggest value for a Jain is non-violence. In fact, one of Gandhi’s major influences was a…

I really loved coaching her [video blog]

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Have you ever met a new (hot) man and felt instantly connected to him? And then you almost simultaneously feel excited and totally freaked out that it won’t work out the way you want it to. That’s why I’m so excited to share this weeks video blog with you. My guest, Sucari, was going through…

how to be rejection proof


Last week I went to Shakespeare in the Park in Central Park to see King Lear. On my way in, I gave the man my ticket and tilted my head around the crowd to see if I could see the stage. I could only see a bit of the burlap and hay covered set, but…

can I date men at work? [video blog]

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I’m pretty excited to share this weeks video blog. Kristin came to me with a great question: Kavita, one of the biggest hurdles I have as a very active career woman is that the men I meet are most often in my business life.  I don’t know how to walk that fine line of keeping…

can you find true love while you’re in a “mediocre” relationship?


Have you ever known you were talking to or dating someone who wasn’t totally right for you but you really enjoyed spending time with them? Maybe you just had a lot of fun together. Or the sex was really good. Or they felt really good to lie next to while you watch a movie on…

have you ever dumped your friends for a man? [ this week’s video blog]

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We’re back in action with another video blog this week! This one is really great because my reader, Nikki, asked a question that comes up not only for women in the early stages of dating a man, but even 2.5 years in like she is. Here’s a preview of what was going on for Nikki:…

what I learned from Alicia Keys about Love

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A couple of weekends ago Hemal and I went on a spiritual retreat to a temple and ashram in New Jersey that I used to go to for summer camp when I was younger. The ashram means so much to me because it was a pivotal experience in my childhood that I feel has shaped…